"A problem with a lot of folks into health and fitness, is that, like a lot of experts in other fields, they tend to lose perspective and not understand that folks who are n00bs at this aren't going to have the intuition, tools, experience, skill-sets, and sense, etc that's going to let them make more informed choices.
It's a reason why I want to scream whenever I hear someone tell me, "oh, you can just build your own PC"
Um, yeah, ignoring the YEARS of experience and time they put into it that I do NOT have. Or the money they could afford to waste on failures that I do not have. You know?
Unless they can actually help me reach their level, it just comes off as advice from a celebrity: gibberish horseshit spraying out of the mouth of an ultra-privileged out of touch alien.
But yeah, it's the same with anyone skilled in ANY skillset I've found. Loss of perspective nearly always happens.
And so when advising someone who doesn't have the skills they do, they become about as helpful as a fortune cookie's advice.
It's why I immediately start asking them questions like, asking them can they show/teach me to do that, or at the very least,
Direct me to some good links/tutorials that can help get me started.
If they don't have the patience to play teacher, that's fine, but don't give advice to people who do NOT have the skills to use it."--Me, inspired by some tweets I've received and a conversation on one of my posts on facebook.